CHICAGO (JGL) — When Tom Hanks quoted his mother in the movie, Forrest Gump, saying, “My mom always said life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.”
This was also how Chicago resident but Philippine-born Marlon L. Pecson felt when he accepted the invitation of his niece to get out of Chicago and attend her wedding in Baldwin, New York last week.
When Marlon called up his long-time friend, Filipino American businesswoman Loida Nicolas Lewis to inform of her trip to New York for a few days. Lewis invited Marlon and members of his family over to drop by her East Hampton, New York estate.
Speechless for a moment as he could not believe that his family would be entertained in a posh residence that sits on 5.89-acre (2.4-hectare) gated community overlooking the Atlantic Ocean by a very busy host, Marlon gingerly accepted the invitation.
East Hampton is a fashionable enclave that is also home to some Hollywood celebrities of the likes of Robert De Niro, Sean “P Diddy” Combs and Jerry Seinfeld.
One writer (Julie Zeveloff) said during “the dead of summer, New York’s A-list has decamped to Long Island’s East End to beat the August heat,” making East Hampton as “one of the most desirable zip codes among the monied set.”
“It was like a dream for me and I hope I did not wake up. And I am very grateful to Manay (a term of endearment for an elder “sister” in Bikol) Loida for treating us like a family and extending us her hospitality,” Marlon recalled.
During the time that they were together, Marlon said, both Loida and Loida’s younger sister, Mely Nicolas, the former chair of the Philippine Commission on Filipinos Overseas under former Philippine President Noynoy Aquino administration, told him they are also following political events in their homeland.
Lewis described the presence of the Pecsons in her place as a “good visit to renew friendship and amity.”
LEWIS VISITS CUBA
Instead of traveling to the Philippines, Lewis had ventured to other places, like Cuba, one of the former colonies of Spain that included the Philippines, Puerto Rico and Guam and were later turned over to the U.S. for $20-M after the bloodless Spanish-American War.
In her travel to Cuba, Lewis learned that as a former Soviet satellite, Cuba was left as an orphan when the Soviet Union fell apart. It lost economic aid from the Soviet Empire even as Cuba faced economic isolation from its former protector, the U.S., which readily granted her outright independence after the Treaty of Paris, although Admiral George Dewey, said Filipinos were “intelligent” and well “capable of self-government.
Puerto Rico has remained a Commonwealth while Guam is an unincorporated territory of the U.S. along with Northern Mariana Islands, U.S. Virgin Islands and American Samoa.
Lewis also learned during her travel that without receiving any largess from the once powerful Soviet Union, the Cuban people learned to survive by casting their lot on improving their agriculture farming to become self-sufficient as no other countries, including the U.S., would extend help to their impoverished country.
Turning into organic farming with the use of insects that eat other insects and the plants attracting insects and using them as fertilizers, like worms and animal manure, the Cuban farmers were able to turn things around and become self-sufficient in food, and enjoy free universal health care and free education.